entry kali ni for every sister who didn't get
married yet and is afraid of what people may say about her. Don’t worry my dear sister, marriage is Rizq @ Rezeki (provision) from Allah and He will surely
grant it to you when He wills it and not when you want it. Don’t care of
what people may say about you, remember that Maryam (‘alaiha salam) never got
married and she is the only woman who has a whole Surah with her name! So if
not having a husband is a defect, she wouldn't have been mentioned in Qur’an!
Tak kawin is not a flaw or a defect but not maintaining chastity is. The real defect is that a woman doesn't preserve her purity and chastity. I'm not encouraging to not get married, rather I'm informing you that marriage is not the end. Allah will bless us with marriage when the time is right.Remember.. when the time is right..Put your hopes in Allah, and prepare yourself to be a great spouse.
Be patient and be sure that Allah will reward you greatly for your patience at the end. This Dunya is not about men or getting married but about submitting your will peacefully to Allah and accept whatever He decrees for you.
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